Lingerie lovers love to shop... but where do you do it? Image:digitalart/FreeDigitalPhotos.net

High street v online: that was the theme of  an interesting chat I took part in on Twitter this week.  Specifically, lingerie shopping on the high street or online.

My take was this: If I had an alternative, I would shop on the high street every time.  Lingerie shopping should be a sensual experience, a decadent pleasure.  Drinking in the textures and colours of beautiful fabrics and enjoying the touch of them against your body.

But when you’re an AA-cup, it’s depressing.  A visit to my local high street recently unturfed the distinctly un-sensual options of a plain T-shirt bra in M&S or a industrial-strength lace boob sling in the local department store.  And you can forget matching knickers.  Unless it is deliberately designed to make you breathless with anger, the offering of lingerie stores and departments on the high street is hardly “experiential”.

So, online it is.  But then you face the issue: how do I know it will fit?  Or: will it cost me an arm and a leg in postage if I have to return it.  It’s not ideal.

And have you noticed that many lingerie websites have a cut-and-paste approach to product descriptions.  I love the few I’ve come across that bother to add an inspiring twist to their text or a helpful acknowledgment that not all sizes are the same.  If they say, this bra “comes up small” I have a heads-up that an A-cup might be worth a try.

The websites I love best (apart from clear winners like Agent Provocateur, which is also out of my budget) are those that favour simplicity with design, they have good quality pictures and easy navigation.  And they imbue the text on their site with a sense of expert product knowledge, discretion, friendliness and even a touch of cheeky humour.

Where do you shop for lingerie:  High street or online?  And which websites werve you well?

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Fish-lips and a flat-chest… this is the cross that the young, beautiful Denise Richards had to bear as a teen.  Denise reveals in a recent feature how peer pressure and bullying as she grew up in Illinois, rather than the demands of Hollywood, was the reason she chose to buy herself a pair of new boobs, aged just 19.

I find it staggering and sad that a gorgeous young woman would feel so desperate about being flat-chested that she would go under the knife.  When your body is healthy, pert and youthful — and in pretty good nick, if you’re Denise Richards — what have you got to complain about?

Tall Stack

Teens don't always recognise the benefits of being a Pancake Princess

 

I’m not insensitive to the hurt caused by cruel taunts.  I don’t remember being on the receiving end of any, despite my very tiny chest, but I had body insecurities just like any young girl.

I solved them with a Wonderbra (back in the days when I could find one that fit).

I get that it can be painful being dealt a body by nature that doesn’t match up to the ideal you’re bombarded with in magazines and movies.  And I know it can be soul-destroying never graduating from your training bra, when all the other girls go cup, cup and away!!!

I just wish that young women could find a better retort to body issues than surgery.  And I wish that surgeons had more moral gumption that to be granting the wishes of women that haven’t had a chance to grow into their bodies and learn to be confident about them.

What do you think?  Have you been the victim of peer pressure?  How did you deal with it?

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